There are 20 days until I’m 40 years old.
I took to the internet a few weeks ago and let you all in on some goals and simple ways of being I’d like to create before I turn 40. You know, try to be a grown up.
So do you want to know how I’m doing??
First thing is I am back to my pre-baby weight! Well my pre 2nd & 3rd baby weight. If it was first baby weight, that would bring me back to 2005 and that would be my wedding weight. I’m not even sure I want to be all the way there again, but I’ll see. I owe it all to the 4-Hour Body. It’s been a small sacrifice to change the way I eat for a while, and the numbers don’t lie. I didn’t participate in much of the exercise part of my first post because that wasn’t a part of the 4-Hour body regimen. I do Jillian’s 6 pack ab or Shred 2 times per week and Tim Ferriss’ 6 minute abs. Already seeing some definition! Hubs is going to make us some kettle bells this weekend.
Getting our financial house in order has meant ditching Bank of America. We are now in a more local bank. The kids have passbook savings -how cute is that. Teaching my kids about money, that’s grown up right? I have gotten into the meat of Mint.com to get a better handle on our finances. We will be paying down our debt AND saving for Disney. How bout them apples?
We had a Sunday Dinner and it was lovely.
The friend thing has not gone as well. Sometimes I get so caught up in my own life and my own day that I forget to reach out beyond these four walls and this screen. I did have a date with the BFF but I bailed because my kids have crazy nap time schedules and on that particular day they were opposite. The we got the stomach flu and I didn’t want to go near anybody for weeks. So…I do have a girls night scheduled for next week to talk more about our 40th Birthday Party extravaganza (that’s another post :-)
The schedule is taking shape. The baby is a bit more predictable these days, two naps at regular times. Big boy and I have come up with lessons for the afternoon. I think he needs his time scheduled more like preschool, so he knows what to expect. It would probably help me too. AND potty training. Hallelujah! Potty training Bunny is going really well. She actually told me yesterday she needed to go and high tailed it to the potty. Awesome! I can almost see the light at the end of the 2 in cloth diapers tunnel.
My husband actually wrote me a love letter for Valentine’s Day – I didn’t think he would remember. But HE DID! We went out on a date night too. So that’s a start.
There you have it. Things are going well.
A fully realized grown up I am not.